Aug 16, 2017 - You may have to put the "shine" on hold for a little while and that's OK! You don't really want to be in the spotlight as much as people say you do. In fact, you need to focus on yourself in a way that takes the pressure off your "outside" self and puts it on your "inner" self. Take food for example. It goes right inside you and thus affects how you think and feel. Put the focus on your healthy diet.