You control your money and material possessions. They don't control you. You're clear on your personal tastes and priorities. Satisfy them in a sensible way and don't let the rest of it drive you nuts. You can provide very well for yourself. Any other opinion on that is illusion. You're a creative, independent spirit with both feet on the ground. Let a special new friend bolster your self-esteem, perhaps in early spring. Your work motive is the best. Be good to yourself, enjoy a robust work situation, and settle into a comfortable, elegant end of the year.