One reason your sign often gets a bad rap is that you need order and routine to feel grounded, which isn't all that sexy, if thinking about traditional sexy.
It's not that you're boring. Far from it, actually... you're quite sexy! You just like being productive, and seeing the results of your methodical planning come to fruition each day.
If you feel that you're getting too attached to your schedule, to the detriment of your romantic life, use your great planning skills to arrange a romantic weekend trip or unexpectedly fun night out with your partner.
A few days at the beach, in wine country, hiking in the mountains, or just trying a new restaurant can bring you so much closer.