It's not just the Fire element that makes Rams so hot!
Your Mars ruler provides your sign with a decided sexiness not possessed by other signs. No matter what your gender, you know what makes you satisfied in bed, and are usually not afraid to speak your mind. What you need is someone who can hear you out without being intimidated.
Your happiest times are when you feel you've hit your target, and made each other happy. That confidence and determination is pretty hot indeed, and acts as quite the aphrodisiac.
The main challenge becomes how to balance your physical and emotional needs. Can you find them both in one person? Only time will tell... but I'm pretty sure you won't have too long of a wait if you're not with that person already!