Virgo is known for their ability to focus on tasks longer and with more determined focus than other signs. It's just part of your complicated nature. And it works!
For you, considering something first, then again and again, makes you better able to handle whatever comes up in your romantic life.
This focus can turn to obsession if you're not careful, though. While this makes you a very passionate lover, outside the bedroom it can be a bit over the top!
If you find you're obsessing too much in love, try balancing solo dates with group activities. Yoga classes, getting together with friends, dance classes, or a book club can help put less pressure on your relationship.