How Aries Act When Hurt: Man, Woman, How to Handle
If you’ve ever had a relationship with an Aries, you know their fiery temper can be both wrathful and spontaneous. Here’s how to deal with an angry Aries.
Remember, this isn’t just for Aries sun signs. If you’re in a relationship with someone with an Aries moon or Aries Mars, this can also affect their temperament, especially when they are upset. Your sweet Virgo sun can turn fiery in an instant when their Aries moon gets hurt.
What Makes an Aries Angry?
While it may seem like Aries gets mad at everything as their passionate nature and fiery temper gets them riled up at every little thing. While Aries is quick to fight, here are a few key things that really make the ram wage war.
- Someone Telling Them What To Do: Good luck to anyone who tries to tell an Aries what to do. Aries are natural leaders and highly independent. While they are open to advice (if they ask for it), but cannot stand being controlled and will fight back against anyone who tries to bully them. Don’t tell an Aries what they can and cannot do, they’ll just do it to spite you. Instead, give them suggestions so they can make their own decisions.
- Anything That Can Slow Them Down: Aries are blessed with an exorbitant amount of energy and drive, however, this also makes them very impatient. Always on the move, they hate anything that slows them down: from slow drivers when they’re running late for work, to delays in their plans, and even people who take forever to get their point across. Don’t be surprised if an Aries snaps because someone is taking a long time to order at the coffee shop or becomes utterly impossible when they haven’t gotten a promotion at work yet.
- Feeling Disrespected: It’s no surprise that Aretha Franklin is an Aries sun because if there’s one thing an Aries needs is respect. Aries are very prideful and are the first sign of the zodiac, and they demand respect from others. If someone tries to talk down to them, belittle them, or try to make them feel less then, you better watch your back as the ram will make you pay.
- Being Deceived: While everyone hates to be deceived and lied to, Aries have a very low tolerance for it. Mainly, because they are so honest. Aries wear their heart on their sleeve and take things at face value. So when they find out that someone lied to them, they want revenge.
How Doe Aries Act When Hurt?
You never need to wonder if an Aries man is hurt, he will let you know by the fire in his eyes and the redness in his face. They are quick to retaliate when they are hurt and will usually react in anger. Even if they’re sad, they act like they’re angry. Impulsive, they will jump into a fight, attacking others and defending themselves. It can very intense as they do or say things they’ll regret later—from punching a wall to screaming hurtful things. Aries aims to do damage.
Like Aries men, Aries women are deeply passionate and refuse to hide their feelings. Don’t break up with an Aries woman in a public place, they WILL make a scene. When angry or hurt they aren’t afraid to burn a bridge or two—even if they’ll regret it in a few hours. They are not above throwing your stiff on the lawn after a fight, keying your car, or airing your dirty laundry in the heat of the moment. When they feel hurt, they need to discuss it, so let them say their piece.
How To Handle
Begin the first sign of the zodiac, Aries is young at heart. While this gives them a childlike quality that is very endearing, it also means they can act pretty childish. Something that can be seen in their temper tantrum, especially if they don’t get their way. The best course of action is to let their fire of rage burn out by giving them space. If you’ve done something wrong, give them a sincere apology. Luckily, Aries never stay mad for long or holds grudges. Unless it’s something serious, they’ll be over it in a few hours.
Are Aries Sensitive?
Aries like to act tough, but behind those horns, Aries can be very sensitive. Especially if their feelings are hurt and their ego is bruised.
Are Aries Independent?
Independent is a defining trait of Aries. They are natural leaders who often choose to go their own way instead of following the pack.
Are Aries clingy?
While any sign can be clingy, Aries are usually much too independent to be considered clingy. However, if an Aries is deeply insecure in a relationship, they may become clingy to their partner.