How to overcome common Libra loneliness...As the sign of the Scales, Libras strive for balance. Problem is, outside stimuli throw us off pretty easily. One of the biggest sources of instability for Libras is our relationships - or lack thereof.
If you're feeling lonely, you are certainly NOT alone. Many Libras have trouble finding and keeping those deep connections to others that we so long for. Why? Because of these common Libra tendencies (I also put a tip for making this help your relationships vs. hurting them):
• Putting others' needs first. This can make you come off as clingy, or can make you settle for less than you actually need from a partner. Instead, think of how loving yourself first and prioritizing your own needs can actually make you able to give more love to another, and be better company.
• Avoiding conflict. This sounds like a good thing, and it certainly can be, but it can also make you a doormat. Keep passion alive and fight for what you believe in... the right partner will respect that.
• Wallowing. You can shut yourself off and obsess on the bad when things aren't going well for you. Limit yourself to a few minutes of self-pity. Write our your negative thoughts, or even say them out loud in a safe, private place. Then, throw the paper out or visualize the troubling thoughts floating away like balloons. Then, do something that you enjoy... take a walk, call a friend, bake a cake, watch a comedy, take a bath. Tell yourself things will get better. They will, and soon. You're awesome!