Generous, thoughtful, charming, sensual - wait - is that a description of you or your ideal mate?
Both, as it turns out. But there has to be a meeting of the minds as well. Since you're so well read and informed, you won't be satisfied with someone if the mental connection is missing.
In fact, it's that brainy spark that will first attract your interest. The love can come later. You are easygoing (usually), and so your partner had better follow suit because you'll have all sorts of suggestions for improvement down the road!