Posted in HOROSCOPE ARTICLES on March 01, 2010
Provided by Fern Feto Spring
How to know the psychic adviser you speak to is offering your optimal reading.
There are many different kinds of psychics and an even greater variation of different personalities among clients. With all the different possibilities it can be very difficult to find the right psychic for you. Here are some insights and clues into finding that special psychic with particular insight into your unique personality.
You should be aware of his or her history, or at least the psychic should come highly recommended by someone you trust. Your psychic should also be the type of person you feel comfortable with. Each of us already has a model in our mind of the type of person we perceive to have insight. This can be an old, wise woman, a sensitive man, or whoever else gives you confidence in their ability.
There are so many ways to divine or have a psychic insight, from understanding the movement of the planets to Tarot and automatic writing. You need to find a psychic with the method you have the most confidence or interest in. This will relax you so the psychic of your choice can have a comfortable and workable situation.
Finding a Psychic
Now that you have an idea of what you are looking for, how do you find them? Television and the Internet are the most obvious choices if you don't live in a locale where there are psychics you can meet in person. The web may be the most ideal option, because TV psychics are always entertainers no matter how profound their ability is.
On the Internet, you can probably find a talented psychic who is much more interested in their craft than becoming a star. This then raises the next question: of the thousands of psychics on the web, which one is right for you?
Some people like female psychics while others lean toward males. For others, gender is not the crucial detail. A sense of their personal nature or your initial attraction to them usually is the best option. Ultimately, it all comes down to instincts when choosing the proper psychic for you, because instinct is a psychic's most powerful tool.
Of course, the old fashioned way is to not find a psychic at all, but to allow the correct one to be drawn to you. By just opening yourself up to spiritual energy, you may attract one to you.
If you can't wait for a cosmic connection, a good approach is to test the waters before you leap in. Find a variety of psychics you're attracted to and test them to see how accurate their readings are. The one with the most insight into you is the obvious best choice. Sometimes psychics you don't really get along with can have the most insight into you. Find that balance between ability and compatibility.
After the search comes the most difficult part. It doesn't matter how gifted a psychic is, if you don't open up and share with them, or fib to cover things up, you can make their job much more difficult. In this aspect, a good psychic is also a counselor or therapist, because they have become proficient at getting people to relax enough to expose what they usually keep hidden inside. Once you have done all this, try to develop a relationship with the psychic that can create an ongoing awareness. A powerful psychic can always pick up on things others can't, but if they understand your pattern they can have even more insight.
By finding the right psychic for you and working together, you can build a cosmic link that by its nature will bring more and more understanding of your subconscious self and what awaits you on your life's journey.