Posted in PSYCHIC ARTICLES on June 3, 2010
Provided by Fern Feto Spring
A key to being able to love others is having love and compassion for your self. Without this, you won't know how to love anyone else. To love your self, you need to understand who you are, and one of the best ways to learn about that is through an adept psychic.
A perceptive psychic can immediately pick up on things about you that are both overt and repressed - things that determine who is attracted to you and who is not. They have the skills to even notice what you hide from your self, because they are not subject to emotional influences in your personal life. Being unaffected, they see what is going on more clearly.
Through a psychic's revelations and guidance, you learn the hidden reasons for your actions and this can make you more compassionate and understanding as to why your significant other does what they do within your relationship, or why certain types of people are drawn to you and others are not. With this awareness transferred by your psychic, you get a clearer, unaffected view of your love life.
What the psychic picks up they transfer to you through the reading. Different psychics use different means to obtain their insight and this is where they actually can be a wonderful mirror, reflecting back upon you the part of the self you have become estranged from. In this way the medium acts as a buffer between the conscious and unconscious you. By doing so they can center you and help you be one with yourself. If you don't really know yourself, a lover can't figure you out. This may be fun in the beginning but after a bit of time it can become very tedious.
Understanding Your Love Interest
The second way a psychic reading can improve your love life is by giving you insight into your lover. Often, we are not quite sure what makes our significant other tick. These reasons go beyond the obvious, and tend to be the ones that they don't share with you. Understanding why your lovers do what they do is a key element in maintaining healthy relationships, because so often we misinterpret what they really mean and this can cause quarrels.
Misunderstandings are often buried before they are resolved. Then, they return to the surface and add fuel to the fire every time you disagree. Your psychic can locate these unresolved issues and bring them back to the surface so you can finally resolve them and remove these irritations from your life. Not carrying around old baggage will make your relationship lighter and more fun.
Another way a psychic can help your love life is by giving both you and your significant other a sense of your future and destiny. By knowing your relationship is still there in your future it allows both of you to relax in the present. By becoming aware of what is coming your way you can also prepare for it. Having this sense of security gives you something to look forward to and that always helps relationships.
When it comes to a shared destiny, romantic unions are one of the strongest bonds two people can have and your psychic should be able to give you the tools and insight needed to forge this kind of long term relationship.